Anti Dieting

How I Created A Pinterest Intuitive Eating Food Diary

How I Created A Pinterest Intuitive Eating Food Diary

If you're a dieter, chances are you're sick of yo yo diets. Losing weight and unable to keep it off for good, obsessing about how much you weigh and worrying about your health. 

Weighing yourself daily, tracking calories, tracking macros, pinching this fat and hating on that roll. 

Been there, done that, all I got was an eating disorder. 

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Wearing The Unicorn Preppy Look As A Form Of Creative Uprising

Wearing The Unicorn Preppy Look As A Form Of Creative Uprising

Aaahh this look is what got the ball rolling back to my college days as a fashion student, my loved one was gushing about my DIY patched jeans using Sashiko, she was encouraging me to put a full look together.

The rainbow is about acceptance and diversity, our body suits are all physically coloured differently, yet our spirits know nothing except I AM, we're all ultimately spiritual beings.

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10 Anti Diet Ways To Fix Indigestion & Become A Feminist Fart Monster

10 Anti Diet Ways To Fix Indigestion & Become A Feminist Fart Monster

Diet culture is a system of beliefs that: worships thinness and equates it to health, promotes weight loss as a means of attaining higher status, demonises certain ways of eating while elevating others, and oppresses people who don’t match up with its supposed picture of health”.

                                                                                               Christy Harrison

RAPE culture is a system of beliefs that: worships MALES and equates it to BETTER, promotes SEXISM as a means of attaining higher status, demonises certain WOMEN while elevating others, and oppresses people who don’t match up with its supposed picture of THE RIGHT WOMAN”.

                                                                                                                         Min

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Why Lopez & Shakira's Super Bowl Performance Is The Clash Within Feminism

Why Lopez & Shakira's Super Bowl Performance Is The Clash Within Feminism

You cannot really tell if a woman own it from the outside, there have been times I felt free by sexualising myself for once, it's a new experience for someone camera shy and prefer to not take center stage, then there're times I did hyper sexualised myself when I had trauma because you might not do that to others but you sure can do it to yourself, kill of your sexuality or feel so disconnected from it that any kind of sexy is taboo. 
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Women Are Calling Kobe Out, Kobe's Celebrity Status Brings Controversy

Women Are Calling Kobe Out, Kobe's Celebrity Status Brings Controversy

Success is immunity for well known men, the cognitive dissonance of the public when dealt with the conflict of how much they admire them and how someone can possibly be a totally different person in private has always been the biggest deterrent for hundreds of abused women I have interviewed in the last four years of anti-violence against women work. 
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The Curious Case of The Pimp & Handmaiden Police

The Curious Case of The Pimp & Handmaiden Police

It is not your fault for feeling lost, uncertain or lousy about your body, we live in a highly toxic world where we're hated for no reason, we're broken down to be compliant, randomly victimised out of the blue, evil is around the corner, people are manipulative and horrifyingly unsafe, some don't have basic decency and respect for others, we live in an asylum and the only way to survive is to completely stop buying in. 

It is not your fault if you have self loathing or self hatred, it is not your fault, you're conditioned daily to stay down, feel lousy and accept that this is a woman's fate, I say hell to the no, we deserve better! 

We do need to work together, to not condone or enable these things to happen, to not shame women when it does, tell her we understand when she's pushed to a corner. That her being victimised isn't her fault, she doesn't have to dress this way or that to stay safe, it's total bullocks, men are capable of controlling themselves, they're not animals, they can do it, they rather not if even the leeway, that is entitlement, it's not they can't, they don't want to do it. 

Tell her that it isn't her duty to pander to the male gaze, it isn't her responsibility for someone else's inability to respect others, it isn't her duty to police herself or another woman either, support her choices first then discourse later, she needs your comfort more than your judgement. 

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